Phone Addiction

Disconnect To Connect: The Power of Phone-free time with Friends

Hari Nambiar
3 min readJan 12, 2023
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Technology has dramatically changed the way we interact with each other. It has made communication more accessible and convenient, but it has also created new challenges for our social lives. One of the most significant challenges is the constant distraction of our smartphones. We’ve all been in social situations where everyone is on their phones, scrolling through social media, sending messages, or checking emails. The result is a lack of real human connection and the feeling that we’re not present.

A simple solution to this problem is to put away our phones when we’re with friends. This means taking everyone’s phones, putting them in a basket or plate face-down, and not allowing anyone to touch them unless it’s an urgent call. This might sound restrictive, but it can lead to some of the most amazing conversations you’ll ever have.

When we put our phones away, we’re forced to be present in the moment, which means we’re more likely to connect with the people we’re with. We’re more likely to have deep and meaningful conversations, which are the foundation of solid relationships. We’re also more likely to find common interests, which leads to deeper connections and shared experiences.

Another benefit of putting away your phone is that it allows you to focus on the present moment and clear your mind. Our phones are a constant distraction, making it difficult to relax and be fully present. When we put them away, we can fully relax and focus on the present moment. This can be incredibly liberating, and it can help us to feel more refreshed and energized.

Setting phone boundaries can also help set boundaries and clear communication within your social group. It allows you to establish rules for phone usage, and it helps to encourage good habits and manners. It also can be a starting point for discussing and agreeing on social interaction boundaries.

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Of course, there may be times when it’s necessary to check your phone, but these should be the exception, not the rule, if you’re expecting an urgent call or using your phone for a specific purpose related to your activity with your friends. It’s also important to let everyone know why you need to check your phone so they don’t feel ignored or disrespected.

In conclusion, putting away your phones when you’re with friends is a simple but powerful solution for improving the quality of your social interactions. By putting away your phones, you’re more likely to connect with the people you’re with and more likely to have deep and meaningful conversations. It’s a small step that can make a big difference in your life. Try it next time you go out with friends, and see the fantastic conversations!

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Hari Nambiar
Hari Nambiar

Written by Hari Nambiar

Writer. Content Creator. I write about life, happiness and philosophy! Freelance Writer Open to Gigs Email: hnambiar200@gmail.com

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